Hi and welcome to the online community
Can I offer my condolences for both of your recent losses. I can understand that it must feel that everything's falling apart.
Could I suggest that you join the bereaved spouses group where you can get support from others who will know exactly what you're going through.
To join just click on the link I've created and then choose 'join this group' on the page that opens. You can then introduce yourself after selecting 'start a discussion' and respond to existing posts by clicking on 'reply'.
x
"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
Hi and welcome to the community
Firstly, can I offer my condolences for your recent loss and I'm sorry to hear how much has been going on in your life recently but I'm glad to hear how much of a comfort getting a new dog in your life has been. People who don't have animals in their lives just don't know what they're missing!
You wrote a really lovely response to Pluto85 and now it's my turn to give you a big (((hug))) in return. It sounds like you've had a lot to deal with recently but it' good that you've reached out to the online community for support.
There are a number of groups that you might like to consider joining. The first is the bereaved family group where you can share your feelings over the recent loss of your dad and give and receive support.
The next groups are the supporting someone with incurable cancer and the carers groups. Both of these are safe places to share your worries.
To join any or all of these groups just click on the links I've created and then choose 'join this group' on the pages that opens. You can then post a question or introduce yourself after selecting 'start a discussion' and respond to existing posts by clicking on 'reply'.
When you feel up to it, it would be really useful if could pop something about your partner's journey so far into your profile as it helps others when answering or looking for someone with a similar diagnosis. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Edit Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
x
"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
Hello I also have just lost my lovely lady very suddenly only 3 weeks ago .She was diagnosed with colon cancer in March after getting through breast cancer last year.It turned out her cancer spread to her liver and there was nothing that could be done.Just so sad,i still can’t quite believe it ,devastated 
Always up for talking to anyone else going through similar things x
Hi and welcome to the online community
I'm very sorry to read of the recent loss of your partner. It must be a very hard time for you right now.
Could I suggest that you join the bereaved spouses group where you can give and receive support from others who will understand what you're going through.
To join just click on the link I've created and then choose 'join this group' on the page that opens. You can then introduce yourself after selecting 'start a discussion' and respond to existing posts by clicking on 'reply'.
Sending a supportive ((hug))
"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
