Hi all
My dad is 75 and we've found out last night he has stage 3 cancer of the spleen and neck(so im assuming that's lymph nodes) at the moment his got 2 weeks to decide what route of chemo he is going to take . He has 2 options palliative and cure he was told.
I don't know how to feel I've done lots of crying but now I'm like at a stage of well how /should I feel now ?
He has been my rock over the year and the one I lean on a lot
Not sure why I've posted I suppose to hear some stories and views on others
Hi 5490e14c74 and Tosh5f10d3 and a warm welcome to the Macmillan Community.
A cancer diagnosis in the family like this can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' support challenges can help you a lot.
The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms).
If you care to have a look through this link > Cancer Specific Groups…… you will find all our dedicated cancer specific support groups listed.
Whatever someone's experiences and journey this link > Cancer Experiences Group…….. highlights our many groups covering all aspects of the cancer journey……. for Patients, Spouses, Partners, Carers, Family and Friends.
It is an emotional time supporting family so you might find this Macmillan information your feelings when someone has cancer helpful as well as this link getting help with your emotions.
The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
