PTSD. I have just had my third major surgery and so traumatized my counselor says it is PTSD and living with cancer which the surgeon says has been removed. He said last year he had removed the cancer and cured me !! The year before I had the colon removed a different hospital.
since a terminal diagnosis in 2017 of Colon Cancer which metastases to my Liver i have had about 20 weeks where I have not been On chemotherapy and the reason for that would be hospital stays and 3 surgeries. Each time I suffer really very badly from the pain relief drugs ,it is horrendous. I agreed to this recent surgery after a discussion with the pain management and agreed to an epidural.
I was the worst i have ever been, with constant hallucinations , not knowing where I was , and fear, it was extremely difficult and scary. The first and second time of surgery was difficult and persuade the pain relief would be managed i continued, I asked if it is likely (I believe the statistics are about 5 years clear)
What happens the answer is the same as the last 3years. Chemotherapy and surgery.
I can't go through the effects of the drugs again i still feel anxious and get palpitations thinking about it all.it is down as 'Cameron's my notes. I also feel embarrassed and let down.
So my life after cancer is 'anxious ' and I feel utterly lost
Ps my first experience with cancer was aged 7 childhood Leukaemia and I have been to appointment at the same hospital each year since and still do now for checks and require d treatment. That's 42 years.
Oh my Chulla, no wonder you've got PTSD, having been living with cancer for so long.
I'm glad you are seeing a counsellor n hope that helps you deal with things. It seems like your life after cancer has been more cancer.
The statistics are just that - we are all individuals n though you've been dealt a particularly poor health hand, you may still beat those statistics. I've been living with kidney cancer n subsequent mets, including in the brain (treated by Cyberknife in 2013) for the past 14 years n am regarded as an " anomaly by my oncologist.. Probably means I should be dead! But I've no intention of doing so just yet.
Sending u a virtual hug x
Hi Chulla and sorry to read your long and the ongoing issues you have been having but a warm welcome to the Online Community, a place that you can talk in safety to people who understand.
Every cancer journey has its ups and unfortunately, lots of downs. Keeping on keeping on can be easy to say, but very hard to achieve.
My 20 year journey with a Skin Lymphoma has had its 'moments' but as buttercup01 says......'She has no intention of giving up yet"
Talking with people helps a lot, I have a very good support network but did have moments where some 'face to face' support was good for me, it just a lot of stuff that I was carrying around in this invisible rucksack in place, actually threw some stuff out and now forgotten.
The Online Community has a few support areas and see see that you have found some of them.
We do have lots of general Cancer experience groups.
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As I said talking with folks who have been on the same journey helps so check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area or a Maggie’s Centre as these folks are amazing.
But we are always around to help out as best as we can.
All the best and another virtual ((hug)) from me x
Mike - Thehighlander
It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela
Sorry to read your story, you have really been throughtoo much.
I too have a councillor for ptsd.
I was diagnosed with leukaemia at 16 months old, back in the early 70s when treatment was in its infancy, and brutal. I blocked all memories for almost 20 years, they came back as flashbacks and night terrors which i deal with by writing down every detail that i recall each time.
The chemo (no hickmans or central lines then) they used to send my parent out, hold me down or tie my wrists to the side of the cot so they could cut my vein with a blade to get a needle in.
The lumber punctures, again i was held or tied down, parents out of the room, i was told they had left as i was being bad screaming. They injected ketamine first which caused out of body hallucinations terrifing for an adult but this went on each week while i was 2 3 and 4 years old.
I then had cranial radiotherapy which i discovered only 2 years ago has left me with multitude brain tumours, the first was removed 2 weeks after diagnosis, the next is inoperable.
The ptsd has left me severely needle phobic, it took the an hour to look for a vein as i freeze then shake uncontrollably.
I remaned at the same hospital until i was 20 before being transferred to an adult hospital. I am now 47.
I had a.l.l but had complcations that spread to lung and lymph. I caught pseudonymous while neutropenic wich destoyed my abdominal skin and muscle chemo had to be suspended while this was treated and skin graft done..i was in for 6 months that time.
You are not alone, happy to talk more if it helps
Oh your reply hits me deep we have been On the same path i too had cancer as a child I was 7 with ALL
Acute lymphoblastic leukaemia . And yes it was brutal treatment, mustard gas, lumbar puncture left in corridors to have purple line painted all over for radiotherapy which while saving my life left permanent damage all over with burnt ovaries and endocrine problems throughout my life so far. And yes there is was trauma from the experience. I was told at the hospital that I still go to for treatment from the side effects of the ALL treatments e.g. Addison disease that a lot of patients who lived from those early cancer treatment especially radiology have gone on to develop further different cancers possible due to cell damage. No help in knowing that really, except I told them that after going to the same hospital for 42 year CBT wouldn't work.
So I think I know where you unfortunately are and here we go again ...?? My Nurse says I should lift my barriers this is as much as I can do because as an adult we are now in control of decision making but have no control in reality and I think this time I will break.
Happy to talk
Chula who by the way is my cat who gives me strength and makes me laugh.
Ps I'm in hospital as I write this, taken very ill friday, a bit better now on drops ect,
but isn't it great how some thing like suspected Gastroenteritis can completely floor us.
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