Waste from Rectum is high.

I know it can happen but it's now a toss up with regards which gets rid of the biggest waste, my Stoma bag or my Rectum.
I can sit on the toilet and ease pressure down a little and the waste comes away with an occasional loud plop from the water as the waste hits it.
This is when the Stoma is working as well.
Constant feelings of pending leakages for my bottom is now normal and has been for a few days.
It's dragging my confidence down now.
Does anyone else have the same problems?

Sorry about the graphic details.