2 yrs ago my wife was diagnosed with cns lymphoma. Received matrix chemotherapy and stem cell transplant and was doing well. About 6 wks ago diagnosed with breast cancer and starts chemo tomorrow. She is worried that she cant survive 2 different cancers in a relatively short time period. I have assured her we can beat this again but can anyone please provide examples of this to reassure her.
Hi Cream legbar, I wanted to say good luck with your wife starting chemo today. I haven’t got experience of two different cancer types, but I have got experience of having to restart treatment for the same cancer metastatic melanoma having been radiologically clear and on no treatment for a year. It felt hard at the start of the second time as you seem to have to cope with the diagnosis at the same time as reliving the last one. I am glad you have the we can beat this again attitude to help her, and I’m sorry I can’t quote a good example to her, but I’m sure there will be other ladies or gents in the breast group (a very active group) who might be able to give you a hand with examples. For me I’m no measurable disease on my scans again, and it feels so good to have got here twice, so I am wishing the same for your wife, and hoping that she can remember her fighting spirit from last time.
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Just want to say good luck with treatments.
my sister in law has had cancer twice before and is has been having treatment for the last 10 years as it has spread to other areas .
She is such an amazing women so positive, even when some doctors see her they can't believe she is a going through so much .We call her Tigger as she just bounces from one thing to another . She just lives her life as best she can when she can and on the days (rare) she doesn't feel like she accepts that's what she needs in order to get strong again to continue do everything she wants .
Her attitude has got her through so far & can't see that changing
.stay as strong and positive as you can ,
plenty of stories of encouragement on here
hugs all round x
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