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To treat or not to treat?

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I am still waiting for my final diagnosis.  I have a lymphoma and am expecting to be told I need Chemo.  I am not able to find details on the statistics and side effects - I understand that everyone responds differently however I am looking for some logical way to decide if I should accept the treatment or decline. 

There doesn't seem to be any talk about this on the internet.  I live a very active, outdoors and independent lifestyle.  I have no wish to live if I am living a half life and whenever I mention this I am told I may be depressed.  This may be the case now (I am about to be diagnosed - I am sure anyone who has been through this process knows how stressful the 'not knowing' can be) however I am trying to get some information in order to make a reasoned decision.  Please would you tell me where to look/who to ask?

Thank you in anticipation of your help Slight smile

  • Hi 1.234

    Thanks for getting in touch and welcome to the online community.

    Making a decision about treatment can be difficult. Once you have more information about your treatment options it may help to speak to someone.

    You can call and speak to one of our cancer information nurse specialists to talk through your options.

    There is also support available at Blood Cancer UK and Lymphoma Action.

    You might also find it useful to connect with people in our groups in the online community. They can share support and their experiences.

    I hope this information helps. Please feel free to get back in touch if you want more information or support.

    Best wishes,

    Fiona M,

    Cancer Information Nurse Specialist 

    You can also speak with the Macmillan Support Line team of experts. Phone free on 0808 808 0000 (7 days a week, 8am-8pm) or send us an email. 

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