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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">When do I stop crying?</title><subtitle type="html">Trying to make sense of husbands diagnosis</subtitle><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2021-01-03T11:43:00Z</updated><entry><title>When do I stop crying?</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/posts/when-do-i-stop-crying" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/posts/when-do-i-stop-crying</id><published>2021-01-03T10:43:00Z</published><updated>2021-01-03T10:43:00Z</updated><content type="html">I have no idea if this is ok for me to be writing this. I mean, its not me, its my husband who is facing this horrible disease. Its not me.&amp;nbsp; I&amp;#39;m being completely selfish in trying to understand my own feelings so that I can try and help him ...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/posts/when-do-i-stop-crying"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=719021&amp;AppID=40031&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="Bile duct cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/archive/tags/Bile%2bduct%2bcancer" /><category term="disease" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/archive/tags/disease" /><category term="feelings" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/archive/tags/feelings" /><category term="Skin cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/archive/tags/Skin%2bcancer" /><category term="Oncologist" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/when-do-i-stop-crying/archive/tags/Oncologist" /></entry></feed>