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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">Tricia Anne S</title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2010-05-24T22:12:48Z</updated><entry><title>How do I  tell my family</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s/posts/how-do-i-tell-my-family" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s/posts/how-do-i-tell-my-family</id><published>2010-05-24T21:12:48Z</published><updated>2010-05-24T21:12:48Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;Hello, I am looking for some advice - how do I tell my grown up children, sister and friends I have cancer - what are the kindest words ?&amp;nbsp; I have been diagnosed for 2 months now and have had a total hysterectomy and will soon be having chemo.&amp;nbsp; My husband knows of course and has been wonderful but like most men &amp;quot;doesn&amp;#39;t speak about it&amp;quot; although he has been very helpful and supportive.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; I thought of say something like &amp;quot; I am ill at the moment but in 5 years I aim to be a cancer survivor&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; how does that sound ? has anyone any better ideas&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=340431&amp;AppID=30778&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="hysterectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s/archive/tags/hysterectomy" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/tricia_anne_s/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /></entry></feed>