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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">To Hop-on or Hop-off is the question?</title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2026-05-23T09:50:18Z</updated><entry><title>Post 413: Crafty Pints in Crafty Bars and Mighty Hikers.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-413-crafty-pints-in-crafty-bars-and-mighty-hikers" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-413-crafty-pints-in-crafty-bars-and-mighty-hikers</id><published>2026-06-06T06:23:27Z</published><updated>2026-06-06T06:23:27Z</updated><content type="html">Post 413: Crafty Pints in Crafty Bars and Mighty Hikers

Getting up to the sound of showers and the smell of bacon cooking in the kitchen is a welcoming start to the day.

It seems like everyone is chattering and laughing, but every now and then ther...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-413-crafty-pints-in-crafty-bars-and-mighty-hikers"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723264&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="cooking" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/cooking" /><category term="laughter" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/laughter" /><category term="financial" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/financial" /></entry><entry><title>Post 412: The Big Cumbrian Surprise.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-412-the-big-cumbrian-surprise" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-412-the-big-cumbrian-surprise</id><published>2026-06-05T04:36:54Z</published><updated>2026-06-05T04:36:54Z</updated><content type="html">Post 412: The Big Cumbrian Surprise

We stopped at that farm shop services 15 miles south of Carlisle, and I was on the phone again. For the fourth time this week.

I should have been getting ready to surprise my boy, but no, I was in tears again, th...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-412-the-big-cumbrian-surprise"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723261&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="shoulder" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/shoulder" /><category term="insurance" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/insurance" /><category term="vision" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/vision" /></entry><entry><title>Post 411: Why Is It So Wintery Today?</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-411-why-is-it-so-wintery-today" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-411-why-is-it-so-wintery-today</id><published>2026-06-04T03:23:15Z</published><updated>2026-06-04T03:23:15Z</updated><content type="html">Post 411: Why Is It So Wintery Today?

Yesterday was indeed a red-letter day, and no mistake.

Every waking hour since, my mind has had a baby in it. Not what it looks like, nor the sex of the little thing, but how it will affect the family.

It has ...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-411-why-is-it-so-wintery-today"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723259&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="insurance" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/insurance" /><category term="anxiety" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/anxiety" /></entry><entry><title>Post 410: Red Letter Day +</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-410-red-letter-day" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-410-red-letter-day</id><published>2026-06-03T06:05:04Z</published><updated>2026-06-03T06:05:04Z</updated><content type="html">Post 410: Red Letter Day +

There are a few days in your life that would require a sledgehammer to remove them from your memory; some good and some bad, but few are as memorable as today.

It&amp;rsquo;s my Darling and my anniversary.
Thirty-six years si...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-410-red-letter-day"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723255&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author></entry><entry><title>Post 409: Pinch punch the first of the month.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-409-pinch-punch-the-first-of-the-month" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-409-pinch-punch-the-first-of-the-month</id><published>2026-06-02T07:18:34Z</published><updated>2026-06-02T07:18:34Z</updated><content type="html">Post 409: Pinch punch the first of the month.

Where&amp;rsquo;s the year going? June is here with summer in tow, and it would be nice to have a long hot summer.

But already the water companies are sending out information of how to save water and with t...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-409-pinch-punch-the-first-of-the-month"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723253&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="Syndrome" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Syndrome" /><category term="shoulder" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/shoulder" /><category term="weight" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/weight" /><category term="Prostate cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Prostate%2bcancer" /><category term="temperature" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/temperature" /><category term="Garden" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Garden" /></entry><entry><title>Post 408: What’s the Story, Rory?</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-408-what-s-the-story-rory" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-408-what-s-the-story-rory</id><published>2026-06-01T06:09:34Z</published><updated>2026-06-01T06:09:34Z</updated><content type="html">Post 408: What&amp;rsquo;s the Story, Rory?

Who&amp;rsquo;s Rory anyway? I certainly don&amp;rsquo;t know. Perhaps he&amp;rsquo;s the guy who counts the words on a page.

I started the day well and this writing lark is getting better, although the pen will give out...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-408-what-s-the-story-rory"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723252&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="temperature" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/temperature" /></entry><entry><title>Post 407: The Storm has mostly blown over us…</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-407-the-storm-has-mostly-blown-over-us" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-407-the-storm-has-mostly-blown-over-us</id><published>2026-05-31T06:51:58Z</published><updated>2026-05-31T06:51:58Z</updated><content type="html">Post 407: The Storm has mostly blown over us&amp;hellip;

My Darling blew the biggest storm forever over the Easter eggs for our eldest and his wife yesterday. A proper storm in an egg cup; and in front of my dear Big Sis.

Today, I&amp;rsquo;ll keep my answ...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-407-the-storm-has-mostly-blown-over-us"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723249&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="Eating" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Eating" /><category term="energy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/energy" /><category term="Relationship" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Relationship" /><category term="working" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/working" /><category term="morphine" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/morphine" /><category term="feelings" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/feelings" /><category term="Easter" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Easter" /><category term="spring" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/spring" /><category term="Exercise" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Exercise" /></entry><entry><title>Post 406: The Pen, the Car and the E-mail.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-406-the-pen-the-car-and-the-e-mail" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-406-the-pen-the-car-and-the-e-mail</id><published>2026-05-30T04:55:12Z</published><updated>2026-05-30T04:55:12Z</updated><content type="html">Post 406: The Pen, the Car and the E-mail

Is it time to admit that I&amp;rsquo;m liking the pen-and-paper book expedition? It&amp;rsquo;s a pretty wild time considering the facts about my past experience &amp;mdash; or lack of experience &amp;mdash; in writing or r...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-406-the-pen-the-car-and-the-e-mail"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723245&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="oramorph" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/oramorph" /><category term="shoulder" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/shoulder" /><category term="energy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/energy" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="radiation" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/radiation" /><category term="shower" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/shower" /><category term="relaxing" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/relaxing" /></entry><entry><title>Post 405: “I love you no doubt”</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-405-i-love-you-no-doubt" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-405-i-love-you-no-doubt</id><published>2026-05-29T06:35:02Z</published><updated>2026-05-29T06:35:02Z</updated><content type="html">Post 405: &amp;ldquo;I love you no doubt&amp;rdquo;

Inside my head I&amp;rsquo;m nowhere near dead
Yes I&amp;rsquo;m okay let go out to play
Stop treating me as if I&amp;rsquo;m already a stiff
I&amp;rsquo;m really okay let&amp;rsquo;s sail to Bombay 

I know I&amp;rsquo;ve been b...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-405-i-love-you-no-doubt"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723243&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author></entry><entry><title>Post 404: A bid, finally with one day to go.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-404-a-bid-finally-with-one-day-to-go" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-404-a-bid-finally-with-one-day-to-go</id><published>2026-05-28T05:31:46Z</published><updated>2026-05-28T05:31:46Z</updated><content type="html">Post 404: A bid, finally with one day to go.

No, I&amp;rsquo;m not bothered. It&amp;rsquo;s a whole day and 17 hours before it&amp;rsquo;s done. So what if it doesn&amp;rsquo;t sell I&amp;rsquo;m not going to cry or anything. It&amp;rsquo;s only a car.
What ever.

This mor...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-404-a-bid-finally-with-one-day-to-go"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723238&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author></entry><entry><title>Post 403: My bum’s sore from keeping in the shade.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-403-my-bum-s-sore-from-keeping-in-the-shade" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-403-my-bum-s-sore-from-keeping-in-the-shade</id><published>2026-05-27T05:03:02Z</published><updated>2026-05-27T05:03:02Z</updated><content type="html">Post 403: My bum&amp;rsquo;s sore from keeping in the shade.

If there&amp;rsquo;s one thing that my Darling can&amp;rsquo;t stand it&amp;rsquo;s the heat. Born in the frozen tundra an hour west of Dublin, her 40 years living in the temperate zone down South you&amp;amp;rsq...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-403-my-bum-s-sore-from-keeping-in-the-shade"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723236&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="oncology" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/oncology" /><category term="oramorph" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/oramorph" /><category term="retirement" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/retirement" /><category term="school" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/school" /><category term="financial" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/financial" /><category term="insurance" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/insurance" /><category term="surveillance" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/surveillance" /></entry><entry><title>Post 402: Trailer Takes Trash Away.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-402-trailer-takes-trash-away" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-402-trailer-takes-trash-away</id><published>2026-05-26T06:24:24Z</published><updated>2026-05-26T06:24:24Z</updated><content type="html">Post 402: Trailer Takes Trash Away

The phone tells me it was 31&amp;deg;C (87&amp;deg;F) and, after walking, pushing, pulling or doing anything really, I am sweating from every pore &amp;mdash; and I&amp;rsquo;m not prone to sweating at all.

It&amp;rsquo;s flipping ho...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-402-trailer-takes-trash-away"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723234&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="disease" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/disease" /><category term="morphine" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/morphine" /><category term="spring" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/spring" /></entry><entry><title>Post 401: Putting something off is not going to stop it from happening.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-401-putting-something-off-is-not-going-to-stop-it-from-happening" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-401-putting-something-off-is-not-going-to-stop-it-from-happening</id><published>2026-05-25T03:37:10Z</published><updated>2026-05-25T03:37:10Z</updated><content type="html">Post 401: Putting Something Off Is Not Going to Stop It from Happening

It&amp;rsquo;s the Sunday after the 400th post and, as per usual, something happens to hurt me right down to my toes. And I&amp;rsquo;ve been putting it off for nearly four years.

The m...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-401-putting-something-off-is-not-going-to-stop-it-from-happening"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723232&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="morphine" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/morphine" /><category term="school" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/school" /><category term="hospice" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/hospice" /><category term="Garden" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Garden" /><category term="Exercise" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Exercise" /></entry><entry><title>Post 400: Da-dada-da-da Da-da.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-400-da-dada-da-da-da-da" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-400-da-dada-da-da-da-da</id><published>2026-05-24T08:05:09Z</published><updated>2026-05-24T08:05:09Z</updated><content type="html">
Post 400: Da-dada-da-da Da-da  


Four hundred posts. Wow! I just can&amp;rsquo;t believe it.

I started this blog as somewhere to get rid of my worst thoughts of either pain or depression during the approach to the chemotherapy (Carboplatin). I was pro...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-400-da-dada-da-da-da-da"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723230&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="carboplatin" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/carboplatin" /><category term="depression" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/depression" /><category term="disease" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/disease" /><category term="weight" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/weight" /><category term="Prostate cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Prostate%2bcancer" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /><category term="brain" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/brain" /><category term="temperature" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/temperature" /></entry><entry><title>Post 399: Second Doctor’s Appointment This Week — Surely Lightning Doesn’t Strike Twice</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-399-second-doctor-s-appointment-this-week-surely-lightning-doesn-t-strike-twice" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-399-second-doctor-s-appointment-this-week-surely-lightning-doesn-t-strike-twice</id><published>2026-05-23T08:50:18Z</published><updated>2026-05-23T08:50:18Z</updated><content type="html">Post 399: Second Doctor&amp;rsquo;s Appointment This Week &amp;mdash; Surely Lightning Doesn&amp;rsquo;t Strike Twice

Today is just another Friday which starts with a kiss and ends with a beer, but has an altogether better feel than terrible Tuesday

I get read...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/posts/post-399-second-doctor-s-appointment-this-week-surely-lightning-doesn-t-strike-twice"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723228&amp;AppID=42562&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Mr U</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/4d468dfaf60f441bb6211820ae8bed25</uri></author><category term="oramorph" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/oramorph" /><category term="transport" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/transport" /><category term="shoulder" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/shoulder" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="morphine" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/morphine" /><category term="feelings" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/feelings" /><category term="shower" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/shower" /><category term="hospice" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/hospice" /><category term="Oncologist" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/Oncologist" /><category term="insurance" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/to-hop-on-or-hop-off-is-the-question/archive/tags/insurance" /></entry></feed>