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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">The final journey</title><subtitle type="html">I have just joined here as I feel support and understanding from those who understand will help me deal with my grief. Dad is still with us, but barely and I am struggling </subtitle><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2021-09-27T08:49:00Z</updated><entry><title>Still don't think we are ready</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey/posts/still-don-t-think-we-are-ready" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey/posts/still-don-t-think-we-are-ready</id><published>2021-09-27T07:49:00Z</published><updated>2021-09-27T07:49:00Z</updated><content type="html">Dad was diagnosed 17 years ago and was given 5 years to live. He is the fittest man I know and I guess we all thought he&amp;#39;d outlive cancer. Now at 71 he is in his final days/week. He has gone downhill so quickly this week. He keeps seeing his mum ...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey/posts/still-don-t-think-we-are-ready"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=719646&amp;AppID=40594&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="sleeping" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/the-final-journey/archive/tags/sleeping" /></entry></feed>