radefiedhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/atomTelligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)2009-12-21T17:22:09ZMissing you badlyhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/missing-you-badly2010-08-26T13:42:31Z2010-08-26T13:42:31Z<p>Still talk to my husband everyday, thought it gets easier but it doesn't. Take care everyone.</p>
<p>Kath</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=362922&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberGood and Bad dayshttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/good-and-bad-days2010-06-21T20:38:53Z2010-06-21T20:38:53Z<p>Trying to keep going today. It is so hard to get through the day, I make sure I am kept busy. Thank you all for your replies. Wish you all Strength to get through this episode of your life.</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=347183&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberBereavedhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/bereaved2010-06-12T20:59:03Z2010-06-12T20:59:03Z<p>It has only been five weeks now since I lost my husband. I have always enjoyed our chats with two ladies at the drug store. I have known them for years. But now they serve me and won't even look at me, I find this very rude and embarrassing.</p>
<p> </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=345115&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberOesophagus Cancerhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/oesophagus-cancer2010-05-02T12:18:43Z2010-05-02T12:18:43Z<p>My loved one has returned home from hospital after pnemonia. He looks so happy that he is home. He is sleeping now after pain relief, so I know that I will find a way to keep him happy. </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=335007&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermembertreatment and emotionshttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/treatment-and-emotions2010-01-30T16:45:02Z2010-01-30T16:45:02Z<p>Hi Victoria</p>
<p>My husband has oesophagus cancer, he has just finished radiotherapy a month ago. I have to blend all his food at the moment, and build up drinks and complain is helpful. He goes through very different emotions, one day bad, one day good. I just try to be there and listen. It is very hard to find out your parent has cancer, you will also be confused and upset at what is happening to your mum, just be there for her and listen to her feelings. Have you found out what treatment she is having yet.</p>
<p>Keep me updated and let me know how she is</p>
<p>Take care</p>
<p>Kath </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=312338&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberBad dayhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/bad-day2010-01-30T16:17:08Z2010-01-30T16:17:08Z<p>Husbands having a very bad day, four weeks since his radiotherapy has a very sore throat.</p>
<p>Kath</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=312334&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberCaring for husbandhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/caring-for-husband2010-01-28T16:48:03Z2010-01-28T16:48:03Z<p>Today my husband keeps on about how he's got to make the most of the time he has left. </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=311781&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberPrecioushttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/precious2010-01-22T09:47:10Z2010-01-22T09:47:10Z<p>My husband is very depressed today. I want to make every day precious for my husband ,because none of us know how long we have. </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=309876&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberHusbands anxietyhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/husbands-anxiety2010-01-19T16:28:35Z2010-01-19T16:28:35Z<p>I find husband very anxious today and a bit depressed, sometimes I feel really lost how to help him.</p>
<p> </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=309156&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberAnxioushttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/anxious2010-01-18T17:14:08Z2010-01-18T17:14:08Z<p>Hi everyone</p>
<p>Hope your all ok. My husband has finished Radiotherapy just waiting for an appointment with consultant about starting his chemo. I telephoned his nurse two weeks ago to help as he has been getting very depressed, she didn't bother phoning back. At least we're seeing his consultant next week. </p>
<p>Thank you everyone for your recipes they have really helped a lot.</p>
<p>Kathx</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=308907&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberHappy New Yearhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/happy-new-year2009-12-31T17:04:33Z2009-12-31T17:04:33Z<p>Hi everyone just a message to wish you all a happy new yearxx</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=302985&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberThanking youhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/radefied/posts/thanking-you2009-12-21T16:22:09Z2009-12-21T16:22:09Z<p>I would like to thank you all for being our friend. My husband has oesophagus cancer and it has spread to his lymph glands. When I showed him your replies it cheered him up, it made him realise that you do not have to be alone.</p>
<p>Best wishes</p>
<p>Kathxxxx</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=300015&AppID=30293&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember