Mum has now suffered a stroke

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My lovely mum who is bravely battling this awful disease suffered a massive stroke yesterday morning. Mini strokes in her early 40's due to antiphospholipid syndrome had caused a significant weakness to her left side which had impaired her hearing, left her arm weak and caused her to walk with a limp. Yesterday the stroke took mums speech and totally paralysed the right side of her body.

Mum was sedated and slept for most of yesterday other being woken by an occasional voice or coughing fit. We watched helplessly as she seemed to be drowning in her own secretions which were just to thick to expel.

This morning after being washed mum looked more alert but not really making eye contact, however as I left to come home to shower I kissed her on the lips and she kissed me back. I thought I imagined it so I gave her my cheek and asked her to do it again which she did. I was so emotional as it really took me by surprise.

The doctors are pleased with the progress she has made over night but they are going to keep her sedated as they said her getting upset is not good for her recovery.

Hugs

Teresa xxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Teresa

    I just wanted to send some (((hugs))) your way this morning. I know that this is a particularly difficult time, and I know that it is very hard watching someone that you love struggling to breathe like that.( my mum had 2 stokes in the 24 hrs before she passed, and the secretions in her chest made sounds that I never wish to hear again so I fully understand your helplessness). Try to take some comfort from the fact that your mums pain seems to be controlled and that she is still able to show that she can hear youxx The memory of that kiss will last forever, you will be able to treasure it for years to come.

    I am glad that the doctors are pleased with how your mum has been overnight,and I hope that your mum continues to progress, will be thinking about xx

    (((hugs))) Sharonxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Teresa,

    My thoughts are with you and your Mum at this time

    I hope your Mum Keeps improving.All the best.

    Take care Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dear Teresa my thoughts are with you and your precious mum. Love teresa

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    keep chin up mum's are fighters

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thinking of you Teresa.

    Christine xx