misslam59

help?

2010-05-05T16:11:03Z

mum had her op now and had complete lung removed, she was in hospital for 2 weeks and is now home. I am looking after her, but what about help i hear other people talking about, that i can't seem to qualify for. To be honest i am exhausted and don't know how long i can carry on, i am disabled myself, and it's hard going. Took mum for blood tests this morning and the poor soul has been in bed all day exhausted., why have i not been offered any help, or am i just feeling sorry for myself

so called friends

2010-02-01T19:01:12Z

sick of so called friends who seem to have dissapeared off the face of the earth since mum was diagnosed with lung cancer. Not one has offered an ounce of help in any way so will just struggle on as usual. It makes me very angry all this, have people forgotten how to use a telephone these days? Best laugh is that we would do anything for anybody at any time, but will think twice in the future.

ignorant people

2009-12-23T19:05:38Z

took my mother into town today, we met a few people that we knew, and who know Mum has cancer. I am extremely angry that not one of them asked her how she was, felt like we had some kind of contageous disease, has anybody else had this reaction?