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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">midgie</title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2009-09-30T11:56:58Z</updated><entry><title>thinking of you today</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/thinking-of-you-today" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/thinking-of-you-today</id><published>2010-02-09T14:35:56Z</published><updated>2010-02-09T14:35:56Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;My dearest maureen it is 6 months today 9 febuary that you were taken from me it only seems like yesterday that you and i were together, i miss you terribly my darling evenings are very lonly without you i think about the weekends when we used to go out and vist places, every day you are with me in my thoughts, one day we will be together again God bless you my darling i love you always forever. your loving Husband Rick.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=315053&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry><entry><title>never forgotten</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/never-forgotten" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/never-forgotten</id><published>2010-01-07T10:33:11Z</published><updated>2010-01-07T10:33:11Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;My darling Maureen its been 5 months since you have been gone and i miss you so very much, i am lost with out you and still find it very hard to cope it was our Natalies birthday yesterday and it was so sad that you were not here,we missed you so much on her day you always made natalie a cake and spoiled her, birthdays and other advents will not be the same now as we always enjoyed being together. i love you my darling maureen and always will god bless you. your loving husband Rick xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=305380&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry><entry><title>kind people</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/kind-people" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/kind-people</id><published>2009-12-29T16:41:51Z</published><updated>2009-12-29T16:41:51Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;HI lucy lee thank you for your post its a comfort knowing lovely and kind people like you and lisa are there to help. thank you. Rick x &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=302123&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry><entry><title>thank you</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/thank-you" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/thank-you</id><published>2009-12-28T13:01:52Z</published><updated>2009-12-28T13:01:52Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;Dear lisa thank you for those kind words yes i do love my wife very much and miss her terribly, you have proved there are kind and thoughtfull people like your self who care. thank you again Rick x&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=301823&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry><entry><title>Christmas</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/christmas" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/christmas</id><published>2009-12-25T11:09:26Z</published><updated>2009-12-25T11:09:26Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;My Darling maureen its christmas day today this is our first christmas in 30 years that we are not together and it hurts so much not to be with you. you are never out of my thoughts from the day they took you from me we looked forward so much for this day with our Daughter Natalie openiing our presents together it will never be the same now, my love for you will never die i have loved and worshiped you from the day we met you are my wife and best friend forever godbless you my Darling your loving husband Rick. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=301148&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="christmas" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/archive/tags/christmas" /></entry><entry><title>things that remind me of you.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/things-that-remind-me-of-you" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/things-that-remind-me-of-you</id><published>2009-10-11T15:04:37Z</published><updated>2009-10-11T15:04:37Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;I&amp;nbsp; agree with you all my wife passed away 8 weeks ago, and lots of things that remind me of her keep coming back our favourite singers like Jim Reeves Nat Kingcole her perfume Esther Lourdar ( youth dew ) all so Stricktly Come Dancing, C.S.I&amp;nbsp; I can not bring myself to watch these yet i dont watch televison because my wife and i did together, all i do is crosswords all so i busy my self around the house things my wife used to do, I miss her so very much as we went and done every thing together. Midgie xx&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=260265&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry><entry><title>support group</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/support-group" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/support-group</id><published>2009-10-06T09:59:56Z</published><updated>2009-10-06T09:59:56Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;Hi everybody.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Since i lost my wife 8 weeks ago i find it very hard to cope all day i walk the house i end up in our bedroom sitting on the bed with her photos all around me just talking to her and crying i miss my wife terribly i feel i dont want to go on. I was told about Macmillan Cancer Support i got in touch with them and they put me in touch with Hospice as they run a support group so i went to my first session yesterday. Every body talked about thier loss and grief wich helped me to talk and the way i feel i did it very relaxing they said it will take two to three weeks before you find a diffrence in your self but i will carry on these classes and hope it will help me so i say to everybody who feels the same go to these session it may help you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Love to all &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; midgie x&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=258490&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="hospice" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/archive/tags/hospice" /><category term="relaxing" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/archive/tags/relaxing" /></entry><entry><title>grief</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/grief" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/midgie/posts/grief</id><published>2009-09-30T10:56:58Z</published><updated>2009-09-30T10:56:58Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;I am finding it very hard to cope of getting over my wife who passed away on the 9th of august i keep photos of her all over the house, i keep breaking down and crying the nights and weekends are the worse i feel i can not go on, we loved and adored each other we done everything to gether thats why its so hard , is there a way of getting over this&amp;nbsp;i would dearly love to hear from any one who has been or going through this.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;love midgie&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=256358&amp;AppID=29969&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry></feed>