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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">mel57</title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/mel57/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/mel57" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/mel57/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2011-02-07T22:24:44Z</updated><entry><title>coping  with mum and dad</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/mel57/posts/coping-with-mum-and-dad" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/mel57/posts/coping-with-mum-and-dad</id><published>2011-02-07T21:24:44Z</published><updated>2011-02-07T21:24:44Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;hi all this is my first blog new to the site but im finding it hard coping with my mum she has vuval cancer one i know not a lot about she started 2 weeks of radiotherpy last tuesday been told it cant be cured my mums in denial my dad has dementia so doesnt really take it all in they live 11 miles from me i do what i can to help them both but mum is feeling really poorly with the treatment and cant do much and dad cant help her much dont really know what to do for the best would like to hear from others who have or are in the same boat and any information on vuval cancer would be great ie other treatments etc thanks &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=402056&amp;AppID=31506&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="Dementia" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/mel57/archive/tags/Dementia" /></entry></feed>