https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/atomTelligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)2026-05-02T15:32:59Zhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/posts/do-i-think-about-the-future2026-05-02T15:05:36Z2026-05-02T15:05:36ZThis seems to be where my worry lies.&nbsp; There&rsquo;s lots going on in the now which needs attention. Cancer at this point in time is all absorbing. I think and wonder about our future and I don&rsquo;t think they are concerns I can really share ...(<a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/posts/do-i-think-about-the-future">read more</a>)<img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723170&AppID=42946&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">DarrenFromBirminghamhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/bf87cf34319140febdc45d27b7d22fc3https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/posts/radiotherapy-is-vile2026-05-02T14:44:45Z2026-05-02T14:44:45ZJay managed to get a few weeks of recovery prior to starting radiotherapy.&nbsp; Every day for 30 days which from what I can gather is a lot.&nbsp; We&rsquo;re a little over half way through. Soft food quickly shifted to liquidised food to liquids on...(<a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/posts/radiotherapy-is-vile">read more</a>)<img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723169&AppID=42946&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">DarrenFromBirminghamhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/bf87cf34319140febdc45d27b7d22fc3https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/posts/how-it-started2026-05-02T14:32:59Z2026-05-02T14:32:59ZJay was diagnosed with aggressive parotid cancer in December 2025 after being investigated for several months. First biopsies were reassuring &ldquo;not cancer&rdquo; was said. False sense of security rolled out, then when it came to removal day, sur...(<a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/looking-after-jay/posts/how-it-started">read more</a>)<img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=723168&AppID=42946&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">DarrenFromBirminghamhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/bf87cf34319140febdc45d27b7d22fc3