Been to see my partner again today and i feel so frustrated. We was told yesterday that he will never be able to eat again, but with sheer grim and determination he might be able to learn to sip fluid. Was also told that he should never lie down as he has no control over his tongue and might choke. Went in today to be told he had had to have a blood transfusion last night. He still has the neck drains in and his neck mis still full af staples. Was then told he may be coming home tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT????????? He was VERY low today and suffers from bi polar and they want to send him home in that state. He is so very angry with what they have left him with especially as he had told them prior to the op that the cancer was not the issue but quality of life most certainly was. What am i going to do??????? I am so scared, not of my partner , but how to deal with him and the situation. I am right at the end of my tether. My doc has put me on the sick, but what do i do if i need to go out and leave him for half hour. ( anyone who is or knows of someone bi polar will understand what i mean). I informed them at the hospital this afternoon of how my partner was feeling as he wont ( or should i say cant as he cant talk). I rang tonight to see how he was, to be told he is doing really well. When asked how he was with his "low" THEY KNEW NOTHING ABOUT IT. AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! Any suggestions please.................what do i do next
