https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jo1/atomTelligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)2010-11-03T14:21:00Zhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jo1/posts/those-cancer-days2010-11-03T13:21:00Z2010-11-03T13:21:00Z<p>just another wet and windy day, but wait its not just a normal day its another day i&#39;m alive!!</p> <p>Its been about 4 months now since they said the words &quot; its back and its incurable&quot;,&nbsp; at first there was shock, grief and of course the ever present pain, then there was the familys reaction, i have five grown-up kids and they all reacted differently, the eldest wanted definitive answers, the second took it upon herself to be my rock, the third was very upset, the fourth couldn&#39;t speak to me and the youngest was inconsolable. I dealt with all these in my stowick fashion. On the bad days i shy away from people but mostly i like company, i&#39;m still at the &quot;talk to everyone about it &quot; stage but as i intend to live forever i will need to stop boring people with it.</p> <p>Thats why this website is so important to me, i know you all understand where i am coming from, so bring on those wet and windy days, get a cuppa and chat to who ever is out there and please feel free to bore me anytime,</p> <p>till next time</p> <p>Jo x</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=381736&AppID=31256&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember