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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">jkbmiv&amp;#39;s blog </title><subtitle type="html">jkbmiv&amp;#39;s blog </subtitle><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2009-06-30T22:00:25Z</updated><entry><title>Need Help to Help........</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv/posts/need-help-to-help" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv/posts/need-help-to-help</id><published>2009-06-30T21:00:25Z</published><updated>2009-06-30T21:00:25Z</updated><content type="html">My partners mother has just been diagnosed with terminal stomach cancer which has spread to the intestine. I need Help to Help him.....It has all happened so very fast and the entire family is trying to deal with the sad news as well as trying to understand what this is all about. Aside from trying to understand the cancer and all processes related to the diagnose (tests, scan, biopsies etc.) I am finding it difficult to know whether I am supporting my partner in the best possible way and therefore trying to find some Help to Help him as best as I can.
What do I do? What do I say? When do I say it? and a lot more questions I need answers to.
So if anyone would know of the best place to find this kind of Help, I would be most grateful...
Jan&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=228366&amp;AppID=23643&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="terminal" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv/archive/tags/terminal" /><category term="Stomach cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jkbmiv/archive/tags/Stomach%2bcancer" /></entry></feed>