https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/atomTelligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)2010-05-26T20:31:11Zhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/mum-has-gone2011-01-28T16:36:47Z2011-01-28T16:36:47Z<p>For all who dont already know mum paessed away on monday the <a href="mailto:24/1/11@%2022.30">24/1/11@ 22.30</a> she was a fighter she put a fight up till the end there was no pain she is getting buried on monday the 31st at 11am i was with her so she wouldnt die alone </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=399785&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/mum-is-on-her-last-days2011-01-18T15:17:32Z2011-01-18T15:17:32Z<p>Hi there for all who knows me just to let you know mum is in hospital and we just got told she only has days left its been quick she was taken in on sunday they thought it wazs fluid but it turns out its a chest infection but she cant fight it no more i will keep you all posted </p> <p>jean</p> <p>&nbsp;</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=397096&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/me2011-01-14T15:26:55Z2011-01-14T15:26:55Z<p>Just to let you know we are all ok not fully moved in yet but getting there im trying to get back online but having probs with bt they cant find my house lol anyway all is ok were stressed but fine love hugs and kisses </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Jean </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=396195&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/to-my-friends2011-01-07T07:58:03Z2011-01-07T07:58:03Z<p>To all who know me you will prob know that i am moving down to the scottish borders i will be moving on tues the 11th of jan i will be off line untill the 17th or the 18th i will get back online asap and let you all know how we are doing and how we are settling in. On another note i am not taking mum with me she dont wanna move again but who can blame her i couldnt go back to havin her stay with me so i would say im feeling bad for leaving her behind but im not i know it sounds bad but she has put my family through alot so its a fresh start for my and my family i will take pictures of the new house so anyone who wants pics send me your email address in a pm and i will send some farewell for now and take care i will speak to you all very soon </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Love hugs and kisses </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Jean </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=394346&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/good-news2010-10-11T13:28:34Z2010-10-11T13:28:34Z<p>Just to let Everyone know my step daughter had her baby at 1.45am on the 11/10/10 weighing 6lb 61/2 oz it was a little girl her name is casie </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=374865&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/cant-cope2010-10-01T21:49:30Z2010-10-01T21:49:30Z<p>I have come to the conclusion now that i cant cope being a full time carer. There for i have decided to put mum in to full time residental care. to much has gone on in my family it has torn us apart i now feel i have to take charge and get my family back in to some form of normality dunno how thats gonna work i have 2 girls aged 10 &amp; 6 that is depressed with all thats going on and my son has left to stay with his dad full time but thats gonna change i just dont have the will to go on no more i am losing everything and its taken me a while to realise when its been too late .As a result my 2 brothers and my sister dont speak to me no more not that&nbsp;i care we didnt speak that much anyway. I am now waiting on mum&#39;s social worker to work her magic and see&nbsp; how long this is all gonna take </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Jean </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=372454&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/mum2010-09-14T20:22:12Z2010-09-14T20:22:12Z<p>i got mum into respite and i also got her another week stay but i am getting help to try and get her in to permenent care me and hubby spoke to the staff at the home this morning and they also agree with us that 24 hour care is what mum need but no i wish i had done it sooner. last night i called my brother to let him know what i was planning to do with mum and now the whole family is against me but i dont care im trying to do whats best for mum. Today my oldest brothers girlfriend started on me outside the home where mum is she also threatned to hit me lol i just laughed at her. Mum has decided that she only wants me my hubby my kids and my step kids to visit her and the others are not allowed in after finding out the so called sis in law was in the boozer before she went to see mum the staff wernt to happy about that as she had the cheek to ask the staff in the home for a vodka what a bare faced cheek anyway i will keep everyone updated </p> <p>&nbsp;</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=367675&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/mum-having-a-better-day2010-05-30T18:36:46Z2010-05-30T18:36:46Z<p>Mum having a better day today she has eaten her first proper meal in 2 weeks lets hope she continues to eat she not had diahrrea today so fingers crossed it continues but i dont think it will.&nbsp;I think &nbsp;it&#39;ll be back in a few days but who knows </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Jean </p> <p>&nbsp;</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=341755&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermemberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/jean/posts/stage-4-cancer2010-05-26T19:31:11Z2010-05-26T19:31:11Z<p>this is gonna sound stupid but what signs do i look out for when my mum&#39;s health starts to deteriroate anyone got any ideas please help she was given 3-6mnths 12 max now she is approaching the 12 month mark i thing her health is starting to go down hill but im not sure</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=340891&AppID=30794&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember