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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">I&amp;#39;m too old for triple neg</title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2023-11-14T08:27:47Z</updated><entry><title>6 dresses for 6 cycles</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/6-dresses-for-6-cycles" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/6-dresses-for-6-cycles</id><published>2024-03-01T20:06:04Z</published><updated>2024-03-01T20:06:04Z</updated><content type="html">So here I am !!! Triple neg breast cancer, 2. 5 months post WLE and SNLB with good outcome on pathology.
Having chemotherapy 6 cycles. X3 EC and then X3 Docetaxal. All 3 weeks apart.
Had my first EC 15 days ago. Days 1-5 ok ISH, extremely muzzy heade...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/6-dresses-for-6-cycles"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721337&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author></entry><entry><title>Update at 3 months post diagnosis</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/update-at-3-months-post-diagnosis" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/update-at-3-months-post-diagnosis</id><published>2024-02-13T15:46:52Z</published><updated>2024-02-13T15:46:52Z</updated><content type="html">So here I am. 3 months since I was blown out of the water by a diagnosis of triple neg breast cancer.&amp;nbsp;
Had lumpectomy in December, looking back it wasn&amp;#39;t that awful, but could have done with much more information about what to expect.
E.g. W...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/update-at-3-months-post-diagnosis"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721282&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="lumpectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/lumpectomy" /><category term="oncology" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/oncology" /><category term="triple negative breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/triple%2bnegative%2bbreast%2bcancer" /><category term="disease" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/disease" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /><category term="Sentinel" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Sentinel" /><category term="eyebrows" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/eyebrows" /></entry><entry><title>Update - mainly for me, but feel free if helpful</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/update---mainly-for-me-but-feel-free-if-helpful" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/update---mainly-for-me-but-feel-free-if-helpful</id><published>2023-12-15T19:44:45Z</published><updated>2023-12-15T19:44:45Z</updated><content type="html">So, here we are 6 weeks post diagnosis with TNBC.
I reflect upon how things are going physically, mentally treatment wise&amp;nbsp;
So it&amp;#39;s nearly Christmas  &amp;nbsp;I swing between don&amp;#39;t give a F***, and I must continue to be well behaved matriarc...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/update---mainly-for-me-but-feel-free-if-helpful"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721134&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="lumpectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/lumpectomy" /><category term="christmas" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/christmas" /><category term="injection" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/injection" /><category term="alcohol" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/alcohol" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="surgeon" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/surgeon" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /><category term="Sentinel" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Sentinel" /><category term="Acupuncture" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Acupuncture" /><category term="Surgical" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Surgical" /><category term="anxiety" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/anxiety" /><category term="Nipple" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Nipple" /></entry><entry><title>Shrinking/shrinkage</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/shrinking-shrinkage" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/shrinking-shrinkage</id><published>2023-11-26T14:55:02Z</published><updated>2023-11-26T14:55:02Z</updated><content type="html">This word comes up frequently in the breast cancer world I now inhabit !!
I was musing on it - these are my thoughts.
So in therapy terms we pray for shrinkage from chemo. If we&amp;#39;re chemo pre surgery we hope for the cancer to shrink so the surgery...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/shrinking-shrinkage"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721114&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="lumpectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/lumpectomy" /><category term="christmas" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/christmas" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /><category term="therapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/therapy" /><category term="Removing the breast" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Removing%2bthe%2bbreast" /><category term="mastectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/mastectomy" /></entry><entry><title>Girly stuff</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/girly-stuff-121563962" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/girly-stuff-121563962</id><published>2023-11-23T14:51:22Z</published><updated>2023-11-23T14:51:22Z</updated><content type="html">Having been overweight all of my life, I&amp;#39;ve become very good at the art of disguise. 
Covering up lumpy bits, smoothing out bumpy bits, shading and shadowing triple chins, highlights, low lights, lycra, draping, suck it in pants I&amp;#39;m a pro.
I&amp;amp;...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/girly-stuff-121563962"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721111&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="Overweight" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Overweight" /><category term="weight" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/weight" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /></entry><entry><title>End of week</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/end-of-week" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/end-of-week</id><published>2023-11-17T20:01:43Z</published><updated>2023-11-17T20:01:43Z</updated><content type="html">So summary of end of 1st whole week post diagnosis !!!
Positives - whole body CT all clear for extra hidden nasties&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; - dont need to stop beloved HRT as cancer is not ho...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/end-of-week"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721104&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="Axillary" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Axillary" /><category term="ovaries" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/ovaries" /><category term="Female" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Female" /><category term="surgeon" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/surgeon" /><category term="histology" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/histology" /></entry><entry><title>Holes made 2, amazing HCP's 3 = a good day</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/holes-made-2-amazing-hcp-s-3-a-good-day" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/holes-made-2-amazing-hcp-s-3-a-good-day</id><published>2023-11-14T17:03:32Z</published><updated>2023-11-14T17:03:32Z</updated><content type="html">Managed to arrange 3 appointments for today.
Didn&amp;#39;t sleep again so a bit bedraggled before i started.
Big wardrobe choice as breast investigations and likely trans vaginal USS. Decisions decisions,&amp;nbsp; quick remove top, easy remove bottoms, soc...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/holes-made-2-amazing-hcp-s-3-a-good-day"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721099&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="tumour" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/tumour" /><category term="Ovarian cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Ovarian%2bcancer" /><category term="Eating" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Eating" /><category term="oncology" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/oncology" /><category term="needles" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/needles" /><category term="ovaries" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/ovaries" /><category term="vaginal" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/vaginal" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /><category term="therapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/therapy" /><category term="pregnant" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/pregnant" /><category term="paracetamol" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/paracetamol" /><category term="biopsy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/biopsy" /><category term="Oncologist" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Oncologist" /><category term="mammogram" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/mammogram" /></entry><entry><title>The beginning- me me me !!!</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/the-beginning--me-me-me" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/the-beginning--me-me-me</id><published>2023-11-14T08:27:47Z</published><updated>2023-11-14T08:27:47Z</updated><content type="html">So, this is me, as the song says.
60 years old (likes to behave younger), midwife,&amp;nbsp; nurse, wife to lovely husband,&amp;nbsp; 2 kids, 30 year old twins.
Semi retired lives in South East, very fortunate with support systems,&amp;nbsp; income etc.
Ive been...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/posts/the-beginning--me-me-me"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721097&amp;AppID=41592&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Vibby</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/7fce65d2be9b46af8f1f921029c3014d</uri></author><category term="lumpectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/lumpectomy" /><category term="Axillary" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Axillary" /><category term="weight" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/weight" /><category term="colorectal" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/colorectal" /><category term="histology" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/histology" /><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /><category term="chemotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/chemotherapy" /><category term="Removing the breast" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Removing%2bthe%2bbreast" /><category term="shower" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/shower" /><category term="operation" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/operation" /><category term="Retired" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/Retired" /><category term="biopsy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/biopsy" /><category term="work and cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/work%2band%2bcancer" /><category term="diarrhoea" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/diarrhoea" /><category term="mastectomy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/mastectomy" /><category term="mammogram" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/i-m-too-old-for-triple-neg/archive/tags/mammogram" /></entry></feed>