What do you ask a Consultant if no cure?

2011-09-13T14:32:24Z

Seeing the Bowel Cancer Consultant at RD&E hospital in Exeter on Thu to discuss Mum's treatment (management) - what questions should I ask?

Thanks

Phil

Hit us like a smack in the teeth!

2011-09-08T14:18:41Z

Yesterday (Wed 7 Sep 11), my Mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer derived from her bowel. She has been unwell for a number of years, has cirosis of the liver, anaemia, diabetes, polyps plus a number of other complaints. The doctors have given her months to live which is difficult to comprehend, I mean, how long is a piece of string?

We are all naturally devastated but trying to remain positive and enjoy the rest of her life. She has four grandchildren aged 3 - 8 and is shell-shocked. She recently lost her husband (Oct 10) and has not been looking after herself, i.e. she does not eat properly and rarely takes exercise. I am obviously worried that she will give up. I have no idea how the next few months will unfold or how quickly or degrading the deterioration will be. Fortunately, there is plenty of support locally.

It all just seems so quick, although she has had a colonoscopy in the recent past (Jun 11) which apparently did show cell alteration, no cancerous cells were discovered until CT scans were conducted last week. Three biopsies were also taken and the doctors are not confident of either surgery or chemotherapy as her liver may not be strong enough to accept the treatment.

Any help, information or support offered would be most welcome.