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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">Grieving... getting things off my shoulders </title><subtitle type="html">Losing my dad at age 22, the biggest challenge of my life. </subtitle><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2021-06-25T18:57:00Z</updated><entry><title>Feeling traumatised by cancer</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/posts/feeling-traumatised-by-cancer" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/posts/feeling-traumatised-by-cancer</id><published>2021-06-25T18:57:00Z</published><updated>2021-06-25T18:57:00Z</updated><content type="html">Hi, figured I&amp;rsquo;d share my story from start to finish just so I can offload as I have not done so at all since my dad passed away just short of a year ago.&amp;nbsp;
I am now a 23 year old girl from Manchester, my close family consisted of my parents...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/posts/feeling-traumatised-by-cancer"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=719421&amp;AppID=40375&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="tumour" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/archive/tags/tumour" /><category term="Eating" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/archive/tags/Eating" /><category term="christmas" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grieving-getting-things-off-my-shoulders/archive/tags/christmas" /><category term="Periods" 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