grahamj&#39;s blog https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grahamj/atomTelligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)2009-01-13T14:50:12Zhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/grahamj/posts/scared-about-the-future2009-01-13T13:50:12Z2009-01-13T13:50:12ZI&#39;m scared about what the future holds....my partner is waiting to have an MRI scan which will decide whether she needs a lumpectomy or a mastectomy. Although she appears on the outside to be taking it all in her stride, I&#39;m really worried about the long term impact for her, especially if she needs more major surgery. I would like to hear from anyone who&#39;s been through this, especially from those who&#39;s partners have had surgery about how they have coped and supported their loved one through this ordeal. I am not natually good at &quot;being strong&quot; but am trying to stay strong for her and the kids. Be pleased to hear from you....<div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=223708&AppID=18561&AppType=Weblog&ContentType=0" width="1" height="1">Former Memberhttps://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember