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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">Good days bad days </title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2011-09-14T18:21:41Z</updated><entry><title>Good day</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days/posts/good-day" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days/posts/good-day</id><published>2011-09-16T15:39:00Z</published><updated>2011-09-16T15:39:00Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Being a part of the Mac Family i feel like i am perfectly normal and incredibly lucky. Our moods go up and down with the drugs&amp;nbsp;as we are all going through the same thing and yet our experience is unique to us. why am i lucky i hear you ask, well i have had some great advice and realised that feeling down can be turned on it&amp;#39;s head quicker than scoffing a box of chocs by going on line and getting tips, hints and best of all support! &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;So thank you Mac Family for making today a better day.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=455156&amp;AppID=32290&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author></entry><entry><title>Staying sane</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days/posts/staying-sane" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/good_days_bad_days/posts/staying-sane</id><published>2011-09-14T17:21:41Z</published><updated>2011-09-14T17:21:41Z</updated><content type="html">&lt;p&gt;I am new at this, but i think i am going to like having a place to vent both my frustrations and get advice and tips on how to cope. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The past 3 years have been very hard on my family, Both my parents died within months of each other- my mum died in 2009, she had pancreatic and breast cancer and my dad had a lung disease and died last year so you can imagine the shock my family&amp;nbsp; and friends were in when 6 months later i was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. My friends and family keep saying i&amp;#39;m brave and an insperation but i don&amp;#39;t feel i deserve the praise as it&amp;#39;s actually my friends, family and the fantastic supprt and treatment i have been getting from the Western and General Hospital that have done all the hard work.&amp;nbsp; Lets face it i&amp;#39;ve been doing exactly what the Dr&amp;#39;s say and my family and close friends have kept me sane and looking on the bright side and being as normal as postible around me. I feel like my personality and my priorities have changed - i have less tolerance for&amp;nbsp;people&amp;nbsp;who only see the down side of things. I would normally encourage them to be positive but now i just avoid spending time with them. The plus side is that i have more time with people who are fun to be around. My relationship with my husband is better than ever and my daughter has shown she is tougher than i gave her credit for. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ahhh that feels so good to get it off my chest. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;thanks for listening, &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Kerry xx&lt;/p&gt;
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