FEELING LONELY AND SAD

another angel in heaven tonite

2010-10-02T21:00:25Z

i lost my lovely dad 15 months ago 2 this cruel disease and i still come on this site a lot and read peoples blogs and sometimes have something to say!!! this site has helped me so much.

a couple of hours ago my friends mum passed away very suddenly from cancer,thank goodness peacfully.im shocked how quickly things turned from a few months 2 imminent for her.

my best friends father in law is also in hospital,now on borrowed time,probably a matter of days for him,he has a brain tumour and has been unbelievably strong thru his 2 year long battle,1 of the most positive people i have ever known and im so sad 2 think that he will be gone 2 soon.

i havent come on here 2 say anything particularly poignant just wanted to pay tribute to 2 wonderful people,heaven will have 2 new wonderful angels,and im sure my dad will b there waiting 2 show them around!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

suspected small bowel cancer

2010-01-16T16:43:22Z

hi,i was wondering if anyone could give me any advice.my friends mum had colon cancer and she went into remission and they thought that she was cured. she has since gone into hospital after loosing weight and having sickness and diarreah,they removed what they thought was scar tissue from her small bowel but it turns out that it is cancer,they have sent her home to build herself up as they cant do any more investigations or treatment until she has put more weight on,shes dropped to 6 stone 9.but my friend says that her mums really struggling with food,theyve told her to eat a lot of thing like cheese and protein drinks but she just cant keep them down,im not sure what medication shes on but i know that theyve given her something to try and stop the diarreah.

i was just wondering if anyone had any advice really on things she can eat or drink or tablets that she could take to help her to get herself built up.they dont know if they got all the cancer out when they took what thay found but they cant go any further until she is in a better state,any advice would be really really gratefully recieved.

thanx niky xxxxx

THE MOST AMAZING THING HAPPENED TODAY

2009-10-17T21:41:38Z

I just had to come on to write about what happened today.i lost my dad 3 months ago and have been really struggling with it all.about 15 years ago i saw a medium who was amazing and i got contct with my nan and just couldnt believe the whole experience,i wasnt a non believer but wasnt sure but this confirmed to me that there is life after death.anyway i really wanted to have the same experience again with my dad,ive just had this need to know that he is happy and that he is with me,i found a medium and went today with my brother (who didnt really believe) and it was amazing,we were there 2 hours and my dad was there the whole time,i still cant quite believe it happened,the things that were said were all 100% spot on and she said that my dad needs us to know that he is happy and his pain has gone and she said that my dad didnt believe in the spirit world or life after death(he didnt at all) but when he died he couldnt believe that spirits came to be with him on his journey and he now knows its not a load of "hocus pocus"!! i could go on for pages and pages the things she said and the memories that he wanted her to give to us,it was just the most wonderful experience ever and the comfort it has given me knowing he is happy and in a better place is irreplaceable.i just wanted to tell everyone about it as i suppoze im still on a high really!! and i really hope that this can comfort others 2 know that their loved ones are definatly in a better place than we all are.........and my brother is now a total believer!!!!

feeling lonely and sad

2009-09-24T09:54:47Z

i hope im doing this right as im still confused by this new site!!!!

i lost my dad nearly 3 months ago to prostate cancer,i know its still early days but im finding it very hard to deal with,i cry every day and i just feel so lonely without him here.ive got a great husband and friends but obviously life moves on around you and i feel my lifes just stopped. my dad was my security,that person who loved me unconditionaly,he was my best mate.i havent got a mum or family or another person that makes me feel "LOVED" the way my dad did and even tho ive got a child of my own and should be a grown up its left me feeling lonely and insecure.i want to talk about my dad still a lot and feel that i havent got anyone to do that with and i wanted to know if anyone else on here had talked to "someone",like a counsellor and if it helped.maybe i just need to give it a lot more time i dont know,i just cant seem to move on from this stage. thanx for reading xxxx