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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">But I can’t have breast cancer, there’s nothing wrong with me!</title><subtitle type="html" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2023-09-03T12:43:15Z</updated><entry><title>Stage, Grade, Treatment ….. Mindf**k!</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/stage-grade-treatment-mindf-k" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/stage-grade-treatment-mindf-k</id><published>2023-10-03T00:40:31Z</published><updated>2023-10-03T00:40:31Z</updated><content type="html">At this point I&amp;rsquo;m getting used to the obligatory &amp;ldquo;clinical groping&amp;rdquo; of my breasts and have a certain fondness for my superhero breast cancer cape (would like the additional superpowers&amp;hellip;. Laser vision? Invisibility? Alas none ...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/stage-grade-treatment-mindf-k"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721047&amp;AppID=41509&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Kfletch</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/70cf31f9503b443aa80b38ff1ea77588</uri></author><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /><category term="biopsy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/biopsy" /><category term="vision" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/vision" /></entry><entry><title>Appointments….. more peopling than strictly necessary!</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/appointments-more-peopling-than-strictly-necessary" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/appointments-more-peopling-than-strictly-necessary</id><published>2023-10-02T22:43:34Z</published><updated>2023-10-02T22:43:34Z</updated><content type="html">Roll on a week of sleepless nights and going down the rabbit hole of Googling &amp;ldquo;will writing services&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;am I going to die&amp;rdquo; and the suchlike and acceptance began to set in. As much as I dislike the phrase &amp;ldquo;it&amp;rsquo;s is wh...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/appointments-more-peopling-than-strictly-necessary"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=721046&amp;AppID=41509&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Kfletch</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/70cf31f9503b443aa80b38ff1ea77588</uri></author><category term="sleepless" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/sleepless" /><category term="anxiety" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/anxiety" /></entry><entry><title>Oh FFS!</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/oh-ffs" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/oh-ffs</id><published>2023-09-03T13:21:06Z</published><updated>2023-09-03T13:21:06Z</updated><content type="html">&amp;ldquo;So I&amp;rsquo;m just going to have another look at this area here&amp;rdquo; this one sentence interrupted my monologue on school holidays, work drama and the price of food and gave me pause to ask &amp;ldquo;oh? Why is something wrong?&amp;rdquo;
The ensuin...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/oh-ffs"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=720992&amp;AppID=41509&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Kfletch</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/70cf31f9503b443aa80b38ff1ea77588</uri></author><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="school" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/school" /></entry><entry><title>One stop boob shop</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/one-stop-boob-shop-2089243701" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/one-stop-boob-shop-2089243701</id><published>2023-09-03T12:14:13Z</published><updated>2023-09-03T12:14:13Z</updated><content type="html">&amp;ldquo;Please attend the breast care clinic on the 28/7/23 at 8:30 am following referral from your GP&amp;rdquo;
First thought &amp;ldquo;why is it so hot in here?&amp;rdquo; Second thought, &amp;ldquo;glad I came alone looks like I may be in for a bit of a wait&amp;amp;hel...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/one-stop-boob-shop-2089243701"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=720991&amp;AppID=41509&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Kfletch</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/70cf31f9503b443aa80b38ff1ea77588</uri></author><category term="radiotherapy" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/radiotherapy" /><category term="examination" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/examination" /><category term="mammogram" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/mammogram" /></entry><entry><title>“Get your tits out”</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/get-your-tits-out" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/get-your-tits-out</id><published>2023-09-03T11:53:12Z</published><updated>2023-09-03T11:53:12Z</updated><content type="html">Fast forward to my breast check up appointment&amp;hellip;. I sat in the waiting room with no anxiety or concern still convinced that I would be sent away with a clean bill of health and a commendation for checking my breasts regularly (something I was w...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/get-your-tits-out"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=720989&amp;AppID=41509&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Kfletch</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/70cf31f9503b443aa80b38ff1ea77588</uri></author><category term="school" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/school" /><category term="anxiety" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/anxiety" /></entry><entry><title>What’s that there?</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/what-s-that-there" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/what-s-that-there</id><published>2023-09-03T11:43:15Z</published><updated>2023-09-03T11:43:15Z</updated><content type="html">Sometime in late June as I was drying my hair I noticed a small indentation in my left breast when I raised up my arms.&amp;nbsp;poking and prodding at this for a few seconds I put it down to nothing more that the underwire of my bra digging in so I deci...(&lt;a href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/posts/what-s-that-there"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=720988&amp;AppID=41509&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Kfletch</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/70cf31f9503b443aa80b38ff1ea77588</uri></author><category term="shower" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/shower" /><category term="Sports" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/but-i-can-t-have-breast-cancer-there-s-nothing-wrong-with-me/archive/tags/Sports" /></entry></feed>