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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cfs-file/__key/system/syndication/atom.xsl" media="screen"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xml:lang="en-US"><title type="html">aliems&amp;#39;s blog </title><subtitle type="html">aliems&amp;#39;s blog </subtitle><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/atom</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/atom" /><generator uri="http://telligent.com" version="12.1.2.21912">Telligent Community (Build: 12.1.2.21912)</generator><updated>2008-12-12T10:13:05Z</updated><entry><title>hello</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/posts/hello" /><id>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/posts/hello</id><published>2008-12-12T09:13:05Z</published><updated>2008-12-12T09:13:05Z</updated><content type="html">hi everyone im new and would appreciate advise and support.  my dear mum has just been diagnosed with breast cancer, it is also in her bones, lungs and liver.  so not good.  it seems to  have appeared in the last few weeks.  back in june it was discovered that she had cancer in her womb which they took away (along with her womb, overies and lining)  mum said she is far too old to have more children so take it away! (she is 66) a follow up check said all cancer was gaone and no further treatment required. phew that was a relief.  three weeks later mum started wheezing and was very breathless.  she had a slight pain in her side.  drs checked and sent her to hospital as they thought it might be a blood clot.  a week of tests in hospital they advised no blood clot just cancer!  my lovely dear mum remains upbeat and unphazed.  but i am scared!  how do i cope without her? how can i stay strong for her when all i want to do is cry and get angry. why my mum? my mum has looked after my 12 yr old daughter while i work so they have such a close relationship.  my daughter is too young to suffer heart break.  xxx&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/aggbug?PostID=222513&amp;AppID=17863&amp;AppType=Weblog&amp;ContentType=0" width="1" height="1"&gt;</content><author><name>Former Member</name><uri>https://community.macmillan.org.uk/members/formermember</uri></author><category term="Relationship" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/archive/tags/Relationship" /><category term="Hospital" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/archive/tags/Hospital" /><category term="Breast cancer" scheme="https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-blogs/b/aliems/archive/tags/Breast%2bcancer" /></entry></feed>