scared now .. whats next ?

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Well it is progressing now and I can see more changes in Mum.Totally bed ridden now very sleepy and confused. 

Sometimes her chat can be good and other times difficult and slow. I did not sleep last night  as I was worrying myself silly.. whats next ? what to expect ? will I cope ? is she in pain ..I always ask her but she says not so that s a blessing I suppose.

I can cry in a instant and hate what this has done to Mum . its not gone as we planned but I suppose nothing can be for certain and you just have to take each day as it comes. I keep wandering how much longer do we have .. not long I think .. Every time I go I say I love her just in case. 

xxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Debs

    When my husband was ill, I wouldnt go out to take the dogs for a walk when the carers where with him without giving him a kiss and telling him I loved him!  Or even when I just went out of the room into the kitchen, just in case........................

    Dont forget that hearing is always the last thing to go, so talking to your mum when you are with her no matter how she is will be good for you both.

    Just do what you are doing.

    Hugs

    Respect

    xxxxxx

     

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