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Forum Post:
Re: Radiotherapy
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
24 days ago
fingers crossed for the trials - one day one of them is going to show results , so why not this one. lots of luck Amanda
Forum Post:
Re: Oral Chemo
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
10 months ago
Chris, am so sorry to hear your news about your husband. My partner was diagnosed aged 47 and he went from being very active to a semi- invalid very quickly when he started the chemo. I felt exactly the same and know what you mean about a "normal" day. We both had to deal with our new normal...
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Re: Surgery stage 3
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
10 months ago
Hi Sue, my partner had the surgery described and he was classed as stage 3. The op is challenging and there is a lot of pain afterwards, so you do need to be discussing the pain meds with the doctors and nurses- absolutely no false heroics. As well as removing the pleura from around the lung we were...
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Re: Help & Ideas Please
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
11 months ago
hello Rosie, hope your husband is feeling a bit better and good luck with the scan Theresa. My partner went through the 6 cycles of chemo, as others have said it does seem to effect people differently. Overall he felt pretty much constantly nauseous, and generally exhausted. Some days he could just...
Forum Post:
ROGER
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
over 1 year ago
So sorry to hear your news- thinking of you at this terrible time. Am sure he always knew how much he was loved Amanda
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Re: Chemo results????
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
over 1 year ago
There is no doubt that chemo is hell, when Ray was undergoing chemo he could just about manage to get up, the fatigue was so debilitating, along with the constant nausea. Have you tried the supplement drinks, they contain 400 cal and 20 grms of protein each , so at least by taking two of these a day...
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Re: Dad's Chemo
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
over 1 year ago
Great news about the scan, my partner had a really bad time after the fourth session, we were really worried about he would get through the final two sessions, but in fact round 4 was the worse. maybe we could see the end of the treatment ahead. Keeping my fingers crossed for your dad. Amanda ...
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Re: Advice on chemo for Grandad?
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
over 2 years ago
Hi Pendry, so sorry to hear about your grandad, my partner had radiotherapy in February 2010, he had three sessions and found it very tiring. The first session wasn't too bad but by the third session he was wiped out for a couple of days. The sessions themselves weren't too bad , although...
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ABC's of CANCER. W,X,Y & Z
Posted by
BRYANandROGER
Posted
over 2 years ago
W . Have you ever seen me wearing a watch? W means watch. No watch. Roger has always been my watch. If I needed to know what the time was, I simply turned to him and asked. He’d say, time for you to get a watch and I’d say, I don’t need one. I have you! Then he’d say how late...
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Re: ABC's of CANCER. T,U, & V.
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
over 2 years ago
maybe we should have a virtual dinner party. Just booked a theatre trip in January, as you say keep focusing on the potential for good stuff Amanda
Forum Post:
ABC's of CANCER. THE LETTER P
Posted by
BRYANandROGER
Posted
over 2 years ago
P . This is probably the most painful letter for me to deal with. P is for protect. For the past 18 years, I have tried to protect Roger. I would not allow anyone to be: unkind, cruel, abuse, hurt, castigate, harm, demean, attack, fill in the blanks….Roger. No one. Ever. Never pick on the honey...
Forum Post:
ABC's of CANCER K, L, & M
Posted by
BRYANandROGER
Posted
over 2 years ago
K Karma. If one wants to look at it this way, our lives were so fantastic, karma almost had to make it go the other way to compensate. L . Lister Hospital. Ten minutes away. Where all of this started and where Roger goes for his chemo treatment. The name Lister we’ve been lead to believe is...
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Re: Is meso staged ??????
Posted by
AJW4
Posted
over 2 years ago
Hi , This disease is scary as it seems to advance so quickly. Meso is staged, but there is ore than agreed method. We were given an official stage after surgery , when we had the results of the biopsy. Having said that, both the ocnologist and surgeon who specialize in meso, said that unlike with...
Blog Post:
my diary the chat to australia was lovely
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
http://rayandmave.wordpress.com/ I have updated by blog today My Diary The Chat to Australia was lovely. Roll on the Summer so we can see the summer flowers again like last year! I sat up until past midnight and had a great chat as we joined in a Skpe meeting in the Melbourne...
Blog Post:
My Diary
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
http://rayandmave.wordpress.com/2011/01/15/my-diary-5/ being a bit lazy today as it has got late so i have updated my blog on my link
Blog Post:
My Diary--a visit from 2 swans
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
We awoke to a very wet morning again so I thought "Oh no a day in the house again" Im feel so shut in at times as last year we had traveled around in the M/Home all over the country meeting loads of friends and here we are stuck in doors watching the rain outside. I got up an answered...
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My Diary --the wind is blowing cold again
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
Just a normal day as Ray went off to help a friend with his New Computer so I did all the house work and was all tidy when Skype rang and there was My friend all the way in Australia. I couldn’t get my camera to work so he couldn’t see me and as Ray wasn’t in I couldn’t...
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My Diary What a wonderful sunny day
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
The sun has shone all day such after a very frosty start with white rooftops that made it look like a dusting of snow had been in the night. It soon warmed up so we had breakfast and a shower and got ready to go out. The neighbour opposite took advantage of the good weather and was cleaning...
Blog Post:
My diary The sea seems to have taken a bashing
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
Being Saturday and the weekend it always seems different to weekdays. I thought when we retired everyday would be the same but that not so as I still look forward to the weekend. It was so windy through the night and the rain lashed down with noises in the garden as objects blew over. The dustbin...
Blog Post:
My Diary of a Mesowarrior -The Sun and Rain today
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
We woke up to a very wet day as the heavens opened and soaked us then low and behold the sun came out but the wind was cold. I walked the dog out while Ray did all the housework which he is getting really good at but I have been encouraging him to do it as he will have to look after himself if...
Blog Post:
My diary--lighting Candles for mesothelioma Sufferes
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
We have been lighting Candles for Mesothelioma victims that have gone and then on January 4th for those that are still fighting away trying to beat the disease. We are very wrapped up in the fight maybe thats the way it always is for people facing a death sentence, maybe thats how you come to...
Blog Post:
My New Year
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 2 years ago
http://rayandmave.wordpress.com/ We have had a great New year Rally at Faversham with the MCC We didn't have to go very far as it was only 5 miles to the school where this venue was being held and we soon got there. After settling in and saying hello to everyone we took the dog for a walk...
Blog Post:
I cant sleep
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 3 years ago
http://rayandmave.wordpress.com/ Another night where I cant sleep its because I have been thinking and worrying why my neighbour has acted the way she has. I was maybe in the wrong that I should have left Dave and Ray and gone to see her but we were on our dog walk and I have to muster all my...
Blog Post:
My Diary The Decorations are down
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 3 years ago
I have taken all the decorations down how sad but we are away for New Year to a MCC Rally so I thought it a good idea to really tidy up but as I say how sad. Get the Champas Ready for New Year!! As I was packing them away I was wondering for a fleeting moment whether I would be hanging...
Blog Post:
My Diary My Christmas
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 3 years ago
I realise i havent been keeping up over Christmas so Im going to cheat http://rayandmave.wordpress.com/ Hope you all had a great Christmas
Blog Post:
My diary---- A busy Day
Posted by
locovan
Posted
over 3 years ago
We didn't get much sleep last night as 2.30am we had a "beep" and I thought that maybe the door bell button had Iced up as it did the last time it snowed, so I got up and unplugged the bell as it is one that you plug into the electric socket. Got back to bed and "beep" well...
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