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Re: Help and Support
Posted by
re_cord_man
Posted
over 1 year ago
Thanks for your kind words and thoughts Denise, I really do appreciate them, and apologies for being slow in responding. I have tried all ways to get counselling quicker, but all to no avail. I'm waiting on LOROS to call me with an appointment for next week. This will be for an initial "one...
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Re: Help and Support
Posted by
re_cord_man
Posted
over 1 year ago
Not yet Denise. I'm very very frustrated by this as you can probably imagine. I can't remeber whether I'd told you that CRUSE had intimated that it may be as long as 6 months to start counselling with them so I contacted LOROS in Leicester, which is one of the places Angela was cared for...
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Re: Help and Support
Posted by
re_cord_man
Posted
over 1 year ago
I'm so grateful for the replies I've had on here, and the offers of friendship and support. I spoke about the apparent long(ish) wait for Cruse to offer actual counselling, and I've now spoken to my GP about that. His response was initially one of surprise, because he didn't realise that...
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Help and Support
Posted by
re_cord_man
Posted
over 1 year ago
My wife Angela died on New Years Day this year from esophageal cancer diagnosed on April 1st last. She had had 3 chemo sessions, then we were told that there were lesions on her liver such that the planned surgery was not possible. She then had 5 radio therapy sessions, but after the second she found...
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Three months today
Posted by
emmaeli.26
Posted
over 2 years ago
Hi I'm Emma, my boyfriend of three years, Sam, passed away in March after battling cancer for a year - he was 20 years old and I am 18. After seeing Sam reduced from a fun-loving, energetic teenager to a skinny bed-ridden shell of the former I'd be lying if I said Sam's death wasn't...
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Dont know what to think.
Posted by
Becs18
Posted
over 2 years ago
My mum had breast cancer twice and she pulled through it, so we were suprised to hear she had cancer again but this time in the brain. The times she had breast cancer i was always confident she would be fine i always thought in my head "you can remove a breast, she will be fine." and she was...
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12 months on and still can't believe it
Posted by
Lucyash
Posted
over 2 years ago
Feeling like there must be something wrong - I know my husband is dead but it really just doen't feel like it. I've just been telling someone about his illness & dying and I know what happened but it feels like I'm describing someone else's life. Is it normal to feel like this so...
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Re: What we all feel
Posted by
maggie54
Posted
over 2 years ago
hi Lizbeth people just do not understand how we feel and what this horrible journey that we have been forced on is like no one who has not lost like we have lost has any idea, even people who have lost other close family members cannot understand our type of greif I found this article below on another...
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new face book site for widows over 50
Posted by
maggie54
Posted
over 2 years ago
hi all I have started a new group on facebook for the widowed & over 50yrs it is a closed & private group where we can give each other support not taking anything away form this group of course but if anyone is interested in chatting in real time get in touch love maggie xx
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Re: What we all feel
Posted by
maggie54
Posted
over 2 years ago
hello ladies glad you all liked my post, i did not write it but found it on a memorial site but whoever did write it must have lost like we have lost because only some one in our position could put it into words like that. I hope everyone is ok and coping (if that is the right word for this) on this...
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Re: where do i go from here
Posted by
maggie54
Posted
over 2 years ago
Hi Midge how are u today, must say i have had a better day today. My son and granddaughter came and i cooked sunday lunch for them and how can I be a misery with a 4yr old running round its just impossible lol she makes me smile all the time. But tomorrow is another day will be alone again most...
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What we all feel
Posted by
maggie54
Posted
over 2 years ago
How wish i could hang this round my neck so people who say your doing well could see how i feel. Dont think I do not feel because you see no tears. A river rages deep inside of grief and loss and fears. Just because I do not cry now don't think my hearts not broken. I keep inside the misery of...
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Re: where do i go from here
Posted by
maggie54
Posted
over 2 years ago
hiya Midge & Kath we all seem to be May widows my ron died May 18th 2010 so we will all have a bad time this coming May. It seems so strange this moarning lark when ron first died i went into coping mode what with insurances funeral arrangments and everything else that went with it. After funeral...
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