Well, how time flies. I haven't written for ages as life has been busy and we have been throwing ourselves into the planning for the wedding (8 weeks tomorrow) and today has been looming as some unreachable point in the future ..... but all too soon here we are again! It made sense 3 months ago when A had the last all clear to decide on a date for the wedding - after all, once you've had cancer you would sit and wait…