He's Gone

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It's been a long time since my last blog and sadly, this is my last blog.

My lovely, uncomplaining husband passed away on 25th Oct. 2010.

He fought so strongly for eighteen months, way past the anticipated time that the Drs. had given.

Now, I'm totally lost. I can't think straight, I can't do anything, I miss him so much. The hurt is so great that I can't stop crying. Dear God, help me please.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Sending you a hug. I am so very sorry for you loss..love Carol xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    So sorry to hear of your loss, there's nothing more i can say than please stay on here for any support you need.

    Dave

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Things are bad at the moment and will be for a long time.

    I know because I have been where you are now,

    I promise you that with time things will become easier to bare and you will learn to live with your loss. I know at this moment you won't believe that but I promise you it will.

    For now you have to get through the next few days. Take little steps one at a time.

    I hope that you have a support network around to cushion you.

    You know that we will all be here to support you day or night. Don't leave the site yet as I believe you will need our support more than ever in the dark days to come.

    Our bodies are wonderful things and at times like these it tends to take over and keep us safe.

    You cry all that you want to let it all out. Don't let anyone tell you how to grieve, we all do it in a different way.

    May your loved one Rest in Peace

    I wish you all the best for the future!

    Love Julie XX

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh Pompei, I am so sorry to hear your sad news.  There are so many of us on this site who have lost their loved ones and I can only say, please stay on this site.  You will get such support here, I know, I lost my darling Martin 5 weeks ago and I do not think I could have survived without it.  I have wonderful friends and family but you can't always burden them with your sadness.  But on here everyone knows how you feel and will lift you up.

    Please take one day at a time and if you can't manage that then just one hour at a time.  I know it will be hard, it is still very hard for me, but you WILL get through this.  Cry as much as you want to cry, I have been told that that is part of the healing process and I believe it is true.  Be selfish for yourself, mend in your own time and stay with us.  

    God bless you

    Pam xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I am so sorry for your loss.  I wish I had words to make you feel better but no one has.  Don't leave the site as you may find that you need your friends on here more than ever in the weeks and months to come.  I lost my mum on the 14th and although I have a great support network it is my friends on here who truly understand.  Take care of yourself and cry as much as you need to.  Love Caroline XX