This is the first time I've blogged: I've hummed & hawed about it for days and hope it will be useful to me or even better to somebody else...
My (absolutely gorgeous) 3rd husband retired in 2008 and started voluntary work with the National Trust as well as doing masses of long-distance walking, a favourite hobby. He and I had been together since 2005, both veterans of 2 failed marriages each, both with 3…