loolabelles dad 2

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My dads being transferred to another hospital tomorrow for a pap (?) scan. He's then coming back to original hospital. The nurses are being wonderful. They're putting a bed in my dads room so my mum can stop tonight and tomorrow night.

He's had loads of visitors which is really helping him. I just wish this week was over, but then I don't in case he doesn't make it through whatever op they end up doing on Thursday.

I've got to sort out his benefits this week. That'll be fun!

I had a few tears on Sunday morning. Now I'm back to being numb. I was even numb when my dad asked a friend to do his funeral. I can even laugh at stuff. is that normal?

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Bless x

    If its not to do with dads health then you will laugh, thats normal, your inner self is craving normality again. Dont beat yourself up for feeling numb love.

    We all react in different ways. Away from my dad I was normal, even in his house, but when I went into his room to see him The caring serious head would go on.

    Its good you shed some tears as that is a bit of a release for you, dont get angry for crying when you want to be strong either.

    Take care of yourself love, always someone here if you need us.

    Sending you lots of love and strength  

    Shaz   ((((((((((((XXXXXXXXX)))))))))))))