Ovarian Cancer

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Hello to all you unknown friends.  This is the first time I have felt a real need for some help.  I was diagnosed 30th July with stage 3c ovarian cancer with omental (unsure of spelling) disease.  Plan was 3/4 chemo cycles of paxol/carboplatin followed by operation and 3/2 more cycles of chemo.  Had 3 chemos and then a scan to find out progress.  After waiting 3 weeks for results met the surgeon and oncologist.  The surgeon said that he was not expecting to effect a cure as such and that the cancer would come back.  He also said that the cancer was very close to the colon and that I may need to have a stoma bag (non reversible).

 

I had been feeling fairly positive up until that time (last Thursday) but now I am finding it very hard.  Both Barry (my husband) and I liked the surgeon, if not what he said and have been told that he is very good.

 

Last Friday I had 4th chemo and am suffering a lot of joint pain and stabbing pains on my side, which I also did after my 2nd cycle - but not nearly so bad 1st and 2nd cycles.  I do think my present mental state is not helping.

 

Has anyone any experience of the Southampton gynaeological team?

 

Thank you all

Anonymous
  • Fiona, I don't have a gynaecological cancer, I had breast cancer, but all the 'patients' on this site will know and understand what you are going through right now and will sympathise. It is like a rug has been pulled from under you; your whole world has turned upside down.

    I can't offer any practical advice but moral support is here in plenty. Keep posting, keep actively contributing to the site and you will soon build up a support group of fellow members.

    KateG

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Fiona - got the permanent stoma and it's not as bad as you think. Stay positive - easy for me to say when the chemo is ripping you apart but as my onco said "I am going to get as much poison into you without killing you." Kezzerbird who blogs regularly on this site has been to hell and back several times and now at last she has got some good news. She's not cured but it looks like they have driven it back to have a good number of years. Someone else I know was given six months to live fifteen years ago and he has had a great time. So stick with it. It's not all beer and skittles now but one day you and Barry will taste the champagne.

    Keep smiling

    love

    Drew

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Fiona,

    I am in the same area as you with Ovarian Cancer.  If you have the same surgeon as I had and the same Mac nurse you are in excellent hands.  The proposed treatment was Carboplatin +/- Taxol. In the even they didnt use the Taxol.  My melon sized tumour was attached to the bowel but the surgeon got it out safety.

    Feel free to contact me.

    Hugs,

    Jan xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Fiona,

    Sounds like you have been through a rough time.

    Stay on this site and your mental state will improve.

    As will your list of friends, who will only be too willing to help with Questions,Support,and Caring.

    Welcome to Macland.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Fiona,

               There is a lot to cope with and sometimes it seems overwhelming but try to stay positive as I really believe it helps. I was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer in Feb 2007. I had carboplatin and taxol plus surgery and went into remission. The cancer has come back twice but each time the chemo has dealt with it. I enjoy life and still do all the things I did before the cancer appeared. It is still quite new for you but once you have had the surgery and the rest of the chemo, things will get better.

          Keep in touch and we will support you any way we can.

           Take care and good luck with everything,

                Love lizzie xx